So, you’re getting married. The big day may be weeks or months from now, but you want to start planning early; if you don’t, the next thing you know, it’s time and you don’t even have the necessary paperwork. The first question after “do I say ‘yes’?” is “who’s going to do all that stuff?”
In other words, do you do it yourself or hire a wedding planner – ooo! Or third option: wait until your mother hears; some mothers are better than wedding planners any day.
How do you decide if you really need a wedding planner? Well, here are a few decision-making questions:
- Do I have the time to do it myself? Many brides spend over 200 hours planning a wedding. If you don’t have the time to dedicate to the planning, a wedding planner can be a great asset.
- Can I visit suppliers while they’re open? Many suppliers are open only during specific hours of the day. If you work during the day and only have time in the evenings, you may not be able to take care of this part of the planning.
- Can I negotiate with caterers, photographers, florists, etc? Be honest with yourself – are you a pushover for a pretty layout? Are you able to say “no” with authority? Can you put your foot down? Wedding planners are trained to deal with contractual agreements with these suppliers to get you exactly what you need.
- Can I deal with any last minute issues? Your wedding day is supposed to be the happiest day of your life, but it can also be nerve-racking – and that’s before anything goes wrong. How would you deal with problems that come up on your wedding day?
While it’s not absolutely necessary to have a wedding planner – someone to advise you in the big decisions – it does help the time, and that special day, go more smoothly.
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